The IPCC have strongly criticised the Metropolitan Police for failing, over four years, to prevent rape suspect Kirk Reid from re-offending. From the Guardian article:

Kirk Reid, 45, a chef and children’s football coach, is serving a life sentence after being convicted of 27 sexual offences, including two of rape, on women on the A24 corridor and near Balham and Tooting underground stations. Police have linked him to a possible 80-100 more sexual assaults between 2001 and 2008.

Horrifying news, especially in the context of the very low conviction rates for rape and sexual assault. Vikram Dodd lists other occurrences of this shameful negligence:

The Met had been breaking its own guidelines, and failing to record reports of rape as a crime. Instead they were classed as “crime-related incidents”. Senior officers say that failing has been put right, but accept that victims were denied a proper investigation.

I will repeat that, as it’s almost unbelievable: the police were failing to record reports of rape as a crime.

Last week the Guardian also reported that important forensic evidence is being missed as rape victims are examined by inexperienced doctors, another factor in the very low conviction rate.

The dodgy science claims of Tories who wanted to shorten the time limit for legal abortion have been laid to rest as the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists publish a review which shows that

“It can be concluded that the foetus cannot experience pain in any sense prior to this gestation.”

Even after 24 weeks, the college concluded a foetus is naturally sedated and unconscious in the womb.

This is good news for those defending a woman’s right to choose, although it probably won’t put an end to the bogus science claims of anti-abortion campaigners.

NICE are proposing that carbon monoxide tests be made obligatory for all pregnant women, as an anti-smoking measure.

Currently it seems that one in five women in the UK smoke during pregnancy. This seems high, but it’s unclear how obligatory smoking tests would help reduce this figure. My problem with it, in particular, is: if you’re prepared to lie to your doctor or midwife about your smoking, are you really going to be open to persuasion about giving up if they catch you out in your lies through an obligatory test?

I would imagine that very few women actually lie to health workers, and that most women are aware of the health risks of smoking during pregnancy (otherwise, why lie?). But treating women like irresponsible children is not the way to bring down the number of pregnant smokers. In general the best way of persuading people to change their behaviour is to make it easier or more attractive for them to change – this seems to guide most NHS anti-smoking treatments, which offer a great deal of flexibility, try and work with the smoker to find the best way for them to quit, and generally work through motivation to stop rather than shame or guilt.

The spokesperson for the Royal College of Midwives said:

“It is crucial that health practitioners, including midwives, focus on being supportive rather than making women feeling guilty, or as though they may not be truthful.

“Use of the monitor has the potential to make women feel guilty and not engaged. We need to look at a range of individualised interventions for women that meet their needs and aspirations.”

In any case this seems like yet another instance of the ways in which pregnant women are treated as less than full adults, as somehow less responsible for their own behaviour and choices, and in need of monitoring or control.

In this piece in today’s Guardian, Deborah Orr asks where the women have gone in contemporary literature.

All of the top five bestselling titles in this week’s Sunday Times Bestseller list included the word Girl. Not woman, but girl. As Orr notes:

In the 1970s, there was a groundswell of opinion suggesting that “girl” was a highly pejorative way of describing a female who was over 18, used to belittle her and rob her of status. Yet these books all lay claim to celebrating female power. Perhaps “girl” is being reclaimed, like the n-word before it.

But in these books (and in popular culture more generally), the term ‘girl’ isn’t used in an ironic or confrontational sense. It isn’t being appropriated to undermine its pejoritive sense; instead, it infantilises its female characters, labelling them as as immature and unthreatening.

While some might say the use of the term girl to describe adult females is harmless – flattering, even, with its implications that the subject is still young and pretty. But we’re now 15 years on from the era of Girl Power, and still I find it patronising and belittling when used to describe a grown woman. When, at work last year, someone referred to me as ‘girl’, the implications were clear; they weren’t referring to my clear(ish) skin – they were questioning my maturity and professional experience.

The message from these book titles, says Orr, is that women are dreary and past-it, while girls are dynamic and exciting. She worries that, in popular culture “women are being infantilised, and that they prefer it that way”.

To me the argument is a little more chicken-and-egg than that. Do women really prefer to be infantilised? Or are we conditioned by popular culture to believe being young and infantile – being a girl – is preferable to maturity and womanhood?

Carrie Bishop asks why we see the same people – men – speaking at conferences:

…it’s not about women being better qualified to speak on the basis of their gender – no one wants the idiot quota to go up at events. Rather, we want good quality speakers that reflect a diversity of opinion and it’s impossible to get that with only one demographic slice. Women often have a different take on things (not better, not worse, just different) and I like to hear different perspectives. The more demographically mixed an audience is, the better for challenge, difference of opinion, different cultural assumptions, and energy.

She sets out a few possible solutions for getting more women’s voices heard. What do you think?

I love these guys!

So, the usual female-led protests against the Miss University London competition were given additional support from a guerilla group of male protesters setting up a booth outside the competition, “encouraging attendees to “vote” over pictures of the contestants”, (they provided kleenex), and “keeping a tally of the girls who brought the guys over the edge.”

Possibly the best bit was the comments garnered from bewildered beauty pageant supporters:

“you’re worse than the feminists, it’s disgusting”

“What so you want people to wank in the booth, over the girls and judge them, how’s that any different from the competition?”

“And I think your suits are shit!”.

“I don’t know what they’re protesting about, it’s not even animal cruelty, they must be jealous”

“But you’re not serious, right?”

This article argues that Etsy.com – the ebay-style site for people to buy and sell handmade crafts – has become a women’s ghetto, full of hobbyists making little or no money from the site.

The proportion of male sellers on Etsy is less than 4% – smaller than in nursing.

“I think for many women the site holds out the hope of successfully combining meaningful work with motherhood in a way that more high-powered careers in the law, business, or sciences seldom allow. In other words, what Etsy is really peddling isn’t only handicrafts, but also the feminist promise that you can have a family and create hip arts and crafts from home during flexible, reasonable hours while still having a respectable, fulfilling, and remunerative career. The problem is that on Etsy, as in much of life, the promise is a fantasy. There’s little evidence that most sellers on the site make much money. This, I suspect, explains the absence of men. They are immune to the allure of this fantasy. They have evaluated the site on purely economic terms and found it wanting.”

Jo and I went to this event on 14 Feb and it was great, really informative. I felt it provided a really good space for discussion and gave a sense of hope for the future. We came up with loads of ideas as a result, simple initiatives that we could get involved with as a group. We’re going to write a little piece on each workshop. Mine will follow shortly.

As promised, here are few links to the stuff we talked about on Saturday to keep the momentum going.

First of all, the link to the body positive website that Jo introduced us to a while back. I really love this site, it’s so funny and informative. I note that they have a cafepress store, but will be closing it soon, so if you’re interested, buy some t-shirts now. I think I’m getting the Aunt Fattie one…

Unfortunately, we’ve missed out on a talk by Susie Orbach next week as it’s sold out already, but in trying to find out about it, I happened upon this website.

And here’s that Times article about women losing their jobs twice as fast as men.

Research at Reading University has shown women leaders are more likely to censor the language they use at work to avoid being judged.

Students interviewed 10 senior female and 10 senior male leaders from FTSE 500 companies about how they speak to colleagues.

They found that women consciously police what they say so they neither sound too feminine, and therefore weak, nor too masculine, and therefore assertive.

Link in the title. I thought this research was an interesting counterbalance to the Deborah Cameron book we’re reading for the next meeting.